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How To Find The G-Spot and Techniques To Drive Your Lady Wild

2009-07-04T00:41:00.000-07:00

How To Find The G-Spot and Techniques To Drive Your
Lady Wild

By Michael Webb
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Did you know that women can have several different
types of orgasms? That’s right.

Of course, it’s no surprise that the “holy grail”
of all the female orgasms is achieved with the
G-spot.

But finding it and knowing how to pleasure her
G-spot is the hard part! Here’s an A-to-Z on
everything you need to know…

1. How to find the G-spot

First of all, the G-spot is actually a zone, rather
than an actual 'spot.' The G-spot is located about
2 inches inside the vagina on the topside. (On the
underside of her stomach.)

You'll know when you've found it because it feels
like a ribbed bump, like the roof of your mouth
just behind your front teeth.

2. How should you stimulate it?

While most men would love to satisfy their ladies
with intercourse, it’s not always the best idea.
Why?

Because it depends on factors like the position,
her level of arousal, and penis and vaginal shape
and size. In short: using fingers is the easiest
way to reach orgasm with the most chance of
success.

3. Important: Before stimulating the G-spot

In most cases, women need to have their clitoris
stimulated before stimulating the G-spot. But once
it's fully stimulated, the clitoris is often too
sensitive for direct contact. Ask your lady.
Otherwise, the G-spot may feel dry and
uncomfortable. After this point, you can move onto
the G-spot.

4. The best positions to stimulate the G-spot

To really stimulate the G-spot, you'll need to be
in a position that gives you great easy access to
work your magic. Here are two suggestions: 1) Your
lady lies on her back while you lie next to her,
using your stronger arm. 2) She sits in
doggie-style position, while you sit and pleasure
her from behind. Actually, if you want even more
passion and excitement, try changing from one
position to another over the course of your
stimulation. Now let’s talk about how you should
pleasure it.

5. How to stimulate the G-spot with this technique

The motion you want to use is the "come over here"
gesture, using your fingers. Keep in mind that the
G-spot is different from the clitoris, which means,
in most cases, you’ll stroke it slightly harder
than the clitoris. Start by massaging it lightly
and work your way up to a point she finds
incredibly satisfying.

6. How to tell if she’s enjoying it

First of all, remember that the best feeling will
vary for every woman. Alternate between two very
slight movements or spots to find what she likes
best. You’ll know what she likes by her breathing
or when she firmly grips you. Having said all that,
there is a way to make this experience even MORE
pleasurable.

7. The missing piece to a powerful orgasm

Did you know that prolonged foreplay is said to
intensify orgasms? That’s right. However, men
often focus so much on “performing” that they
forget about spicing up their lovemaking with new
and exciting things. Let’s face it; most of us are
guilty of this. You take your clothes off. Away you
go, and, within a few seconds or minutes, the
routine is over. But as the bedroom magic fades, it
becomes harder and harder to make woman achieve
orgasms. Why? Because women long for variety in
their sexual experience. The very best way to
please women long-term is to have an entire ‘bag of
ideas’ ready to pull out whenever they’re needed. I
cannot stress the need to keep your lovemaking
fresh and exciting in every way. That’s the secret
to fulfilled lovemaking.

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500
Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up
your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and
intimacy to your experience.

To read more, visit: 500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets

The Best Positions For Mind-Blowing Orgasms

2009-07-04T00:27:00.000-07:00

The Best Positions For Mind-Blowing Orgasms

By Michael Webb
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Is there such thing as “the best” lovemaking
position?

Actually there is!

However, the best positions for men and women are
different. Also, did you know that by moving even
one inch in any direction while in these positions,
you can dramatically change the feeling and
intensity of a position?

Take your time to find the best angles for the both
of you, while using these positions.

The Best Position For Women To Climax

The reverse missionary is identical to the
traditional missionary except that she is on top.
This is probably the easiest position for a woman
to climax because she can control the friction to
her clitoris and/or G-spot.

Since you typically want the women to orgasm first,
this would be one of your first positions and then
move to a position where the guy has full control
for his orgasm.

You can vary your leg positions by both of you
spreading your legs, or by alternating the one who
has them spread and the one who has them together.

The Best Position For Men To Orgasm

Practically every animal species utilizes the
rear-entry “doggy-style” position, so it is a
natural one for humans to enjoy, as well. Although
you won’t have face-to-face contact, there are many
benefits. It is great for guys because it gives
them full control.

This is one of the best positions for hitting her
G-spot and allows you to fondle her breasts,
stomach, clitoris, back, neck and other sensual
spots. Even she can touch her clitoris in this
position.

She kneels before you (some women enjoy it more if
their head is down on a pillow) and you enter her
from behind.

The main benefit for the guy is a view of her
beautiful bottom and being able to see the action,
while getting incredibly deep penetration
(above-average guys need to be careful as deep
thrusts might hit her cervix, which can be quite
painful).

The Mistake Couples Make Using Lovemaking Positions

Of course, books show dozens, if not hundreds, of
sexual positions, but the reality is that there are
maybe only eight basic positions, with slight
variations for each.

So what happens when you've tried all eight
positions to death? Let's face itin the end,
lovemaking is generally always the same.

That’s why you should explore ALL aspects of
sexuality about each other. I don't mean anything
freaky here. I just mean cultivate an adventurous
spirit. Turn foreplay into a game. Add a prop or
two.

Try a new place. How about starting off with a
plate of fruits? There are literally HUNDREDS of
ways you can make your lovemaking more exciting,
passionate and fulfilling long-term, rather than
just trying new positions.

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500
Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up
your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and
intimacy to your experience.

To
read more, visit: 500
Lovemaking Tips and Secrets

5 Tips For Better Lovemaking

2009-07-04T00:15:00.001-07:00

5 Tips For Better Lovemaking

By Michael Webb

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Here are five really simple ways to make your
lovemaking more hot, steamy and passionate… (Even
starting tonight)

1. Find your partner’s “hidden” zones

I call these “hidden” zones because many people
don’t realize, or forget, that these areas of the
body LOVE attention.

While many of these zones are obvious, like the
lips, breasts, inner thighs and genitals, there are
also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed,
can drive your partner wild and even intensify
their orgasm.

Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms and hair
are all really sensitive areas that love to be
stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay
caressing and touching these areas, and watch how
it pleases your partner.

2. Set a romantic mood

People often think that using candles, music,
incense and even rose petals to set the mood of
your lovemaking is too “cliché.” Are they kidding!
Your partner will LOVE YOU for this.

Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone
went to all the trouble to create a special
lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years
to come. Could this be so “cliché” because people
enjoy it so much? Point made.

3. Give them a sensual massage

Why stop at setting the mood? Go one step further
and give your partner a sensual massage that makes
them feel relaxed and loved at the same time. Make
it sexy, sensual, and pleasurable.

Massage them naked or build up the anticipation by
having them slowly undress during the massage. Then
kiss, caress and slowly transition “under the
sheets” where a massage of another kind can take
place.

And no, you don’t need years of study to give a
great massage. Just grab some candles and music,
and bless your partner with an experience they’ll
never forget.

4. Please your partner with more oral sex

Did you know that oral sex is a great way to
strengthen your relationship? Think about it. It
takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody
have their mouth down there. Not to mention it’s
great for men who want to relax without pressure to
perform, and for women who can’t reach orgasm from
only intercourse. In short, it’s an important part
of foreplay. Here are some tips for both men and
women.

LADIES: Women often start fellatio by sucking on
the penis straight away when, actually, they should
start with some playful teasing and soft touches.
This will lead to a much more powerful orgasm as it
heightens his anticipation.

GENTLEMAN: A mistake men often make is moving their
tongue in a thrusting fashion, when stimulating the
vagina and clitoris orally. Instead, they should
lick it like an ice cream cone. Another great tip
to keep things exciting is to write the alphabet
around the clitoris with your tongue.

5. Constantly explore and try new things

If I could only give you one piece of advice for
better lovemaking, it would be this: become
adventurous and creative.

Nothing is stopping you from red-hot passion except
your level of creativity. Try a new position, do it
somewhere new, or spice up your foreplay with a
game.

Let’s face it, the basic act of lovemaking, no
matter how hard you try, is always kiss and thrust,
but it’s HOW you do it and the way you make your
partner feel that really counts.

By dedicating time to finding new things, you can
turn ordinary lovemaking into extraordinary
lovemaking. This is the sure-fire way to make sure
your lovemaking stays passionate, pleasurable, and
intimate for years to come.

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500
Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up
your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and
intimacy to your experience.

To
read more, visit: 500
Lovemaking Tips and Secrets

7 Lovemaking Mistakes That Couples Make and How to Avoid Them

2009-07-04T00:11:00.000-07:00

7 Lovemaking Mistakes
That Couples Make and How To Avoid Them

Did you know that people
who try to spice up their lovemaking, often make their experiences LESS fulfilling?
It’s true.

Over the years, I've seen
couples make the same mistakes over and over again, when trying to improve their
love lives, and I'd like to teach you how to overcome and avoid these problems.
Here are the 7 lovemaking mistakes. Are you making them?

Mistake #1: Feeling
scared or embarrassed to talk about trying new things

Have you ever had an idea
to spice up your lovemaking but were afraid of what your partner may think?
Believe it or not, in 90% of cases, your partner would LOVE to try something
new, too, but they're just as uncomfortable or embarrassed about bringing it
up as you are.

And you don't need to introduce
whips, chains or a third person. That's nonsense! There are hundreds of ways
to bring variety to your passionate play that aren't crude or dangerous and
that your partner is sure to be comfortable with.

Mistake #2: Trying
to convince the partner to make love

If your lover is tired
or not in the mood for sex, trying to convince or persuade them to have sex
almost NEVER works. On the other hand, when a person is sexually aroused, their
body releases the chemical 'adrenaline' into the bloodstream. This chemical
is what gives you the energy to make love. So here's how to arouse them the
right way. Yes, even if they're tired.

Ladies: Want
to get him in the mood? Give him fellatio or manually stroke him between 9 –
10 in the morning. This is when his testosterone levels are highest for the
day. For better results, also wear something sexy or nothing at all. He'll like
that.

Lads:
Deep passionate kisses are one of the biggest 'turn-ons' for women. Looking
in her eyes and touching her face while kissing her can really increase arousal,
too. And give some attention to her neck––it will drive her wild.
But don't rush this! Spend quality time building up her arousal with your sensual
kisses.

Mistake #3: Neglecting
foreplay to enjoy intercourse sooner

People in a relationship
(especially men) tend to neglect foreplay so they can begin to enjoy intercourse
sooner, but did you know that foreplay is actually said to intensify orgasms?

That's right. If you kiss,
caress and touch longer, you can make your lovemaking even more satisfying.
So SLOW DOWN. Take your time. If you want to make it even better, tease your
partner in a playful way. (This works like crazy.)

If you find something that
they really enjoy, stop doing it, move back, and then do it again later. The
more you pull back and push forward, the more they'll want it. And the more
intense their experience will be. There are many games you can play to heighten
this anticipation, too.

Mistake #4: Using
toys or porn to make your lovemaking better

When sex hits a rough patch,
many couples (men especially) think that a video, some plastic or vibrating
thingy will instantly takes things through the roof.

Wrong!… While toys
can certainly have their place in your lovemaking repertoire, relying on them
can be extremely dangerous. These outside sources of pleasure can quickly make
lovemaking even less fulfilling.

Why? Because you don't
want your partner to end up looking forward to their plastic toy for pleasure
more than they look forward to pleasure with you, do you? Couples need to first
fully discover how to please all their spouses' body parts before introducing
other elements. Use them as a spice, not the main course.

Mistake #5: Trying
to make the woman orgasm ONLY from intercourse

Men often feel "unmanly"
if they can't satisfy their woman from intercourse. But what they need to understand
is that a large number of women can't achieve orgasm through normal lovemaking.

Just knowing this takes the pressure off men completely. Now there's no need
to get upset when their women don’t reach orgasm. Instead, men should
master the art of cunnilingus (going down on a woman).

Mistake #6: Trying
to “finish” at the same time

Simultaneous orgasms are
quite overrated. Instead of aiming for one orgasm that you share together, focus
completely on the woman’s needs first. Hold off from the positions you
find most enjoyable and instead make love in ways that are most pleasurable
for your lady, until she is completely satisfied. That way you have a much greater
chance of both climaxing.

Mistake #7: Sticking
to a “set routine” too often

You know the drill. You
take your clothes off, insert part A into part B, and, within a few minutes,
the routine is over. Sound familiar?

No matter how fantastic
lovemaking can be, there’s no denying it can get boring over the years.
And the reason is because lovemaking in its basic act is always the same. But
the danger is letting it get “too routine,” which can begin to affect
your relationship.

The BEST WAY to protect
your love life and precious connection with your partner is to have lots of
new lovemaking ideas ready at your disposal.

That's the secret.

In fact, when you have
an abundance of NEW tips and techniques ready, you’ll enjoy more hot,
steamy and passionate lovemaking, discover newfound enthusiasm to make love
and even make love more often.

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael
Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your
lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience.
To
read more, visit: 500
Lovemaking Tips and Secrets

10 Ways to Rekindle the Magic in your Relationship

2009-07-03T23:58:00.000-07:00

10 Ways To Rekindle The Magic In Your Relationship

By Michael Webb
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Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t
have the magic and romance that it once had?

You’re not alone.

Living with the same partner for a long time can
become stable and comfortable, and, as a result,
can also kill the spark that made your relationship
so special in the first place.

Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to
reignite that magic:

1. SEND THEM A UNIQUE GIFT

Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a
bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two
stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your
two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I
Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal
envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a
formal address label of your partner's workplace,
such as: “For the immediate and urgent attention
of: Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith
Solicitors, New York.” Mail it to your partner so
they receive it in the middle of a busy day.

2. BECOME KIDS AGAIN

If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and
give your partner a ride. This will often bring
back happy memories from their childhood.

3. FUN WITH WATER

On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols
and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out
and throw one to your partner and then have a huge
water fight.

4. A MASSAGE WITH A TWIST

Buy a small, decorated cardboard box, a sheet of
colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank
card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the
massage oil in the box and write the following
message on the card: I know a great masseur. For an
appointment call: (Your Phone Number)

5. BRING BACK CHILDHOOD MEMORIES

Contact your partner's family and ask if there was
anything she always wanted when she was a little
girl. For example if she always wanted a porcelain
doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only
appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you
were thoughtful enough to find out what she always
wanted. You can do this for your man too.

6. STARE AT THE CLOUDS

Drive into the country, find a grassy hill, and lie
with your partner and look up at the clouds.

7. WALK ALONG THE BEACH

Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the
sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner
as you watch the sun go down.

8. ORGANIZE A PICNIC ON A WARM SUMMER’S NIGHT

Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get
together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie
down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up
at the stars together.

9. SHOW YOU’RE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR PARTNER

Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find
it, with a note on it saying: "Thank you for coming
into my life."

10. SPICE UP YOUR LOVEMAKING

Probably the most profound way to rekindle the
romance in your relationship is to spice up your
lovemaking. Surprise your partner with a little
gift after you make love, try a new position, learn
to give your partner a sensual massage before or
after, or just spend some time staring into each
other’s eyes and caressing their bare skin before
making love.

Many people underestimate the affect passionate and
intimate lovemaking has on a relationship. If you
spice it up, chances are you and your partner will
naturally do romantic things for each other. Why?
Because passionate lovemaking connects two people
in a meaningful and unexplainable way that nothing
else can.

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500
Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up
your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and
intimacy to your experience.

To
read more, visit: 500
Lovemaking Tips and Secrets